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Moving Energy – It’s National Masturbation Day

This year, without exception, every person on earth must find ways to process a global crisis and all of the unfamiliar energies that crisis presents. I am repeatedly moving through all of the stages in grief — not necessarily in the proper order.

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Anti-Masturbation: Society Invades Solitude

Anti-masturbation campaigns are as common as nosey neighbors, yet as insidious as a cult. They beguile unwary wankers into believing solo genital pleasure is personally dangerous and socially damning.

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OG 2018 Masturbate-A-Thon

OG 2018 Masturbate-A-Thon: A world-wide synchrony of pleasure to achieve world-wide peace and unity. It certainly can’t hurt. Starts May 1st.

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Edging The Divide

Edging — that curious mix of sexual restraint and abandon — is a liminal place in male sexual experience. You’re not here and you’re not there.

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Male Sex Drive: 9 Myths Busted

Like a naked rifle squad, we think of guy sex drive as little more than a hard-on, a target and the relief of a well-aimed load. Male sex myths busted!

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What is Masturbation?

Male masturbation, what guys do, is likely the first and last sexual act of a man. Fraught with moral controversy, guys need to square off with their own comfort with their body and sexuality. Masturbation inevitably is where that is going to happen.

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Where is Your Aneros?

Aneros and anal sex play revolutionized the male sex toy world — literally by storm. Aneros isn’t simple masturbation. Aneros is personal sexual art.